I was trying to think of something to write, and posting a screenshot of my desktop seemed like a fun idea. Here it is.
And yes, I'm still running XFCE 4.2. I like it. Plus, I'm a really slow adopter when it comes to some things.
I do love that castle though, someday I plan on owning my own and living there. 
4.2 is FAIL dipped in FAILSAUCE. I keep hounding you to upgrade! 4.2 hasn't been in the tree in months!
Go read my guide: http://www.gentoo.org/doc/en/xfce-config.xml . I've even left in the 4.2 upgrade chapter specifically for people like you. C'mon. You're only hurting yourself by continuing to use xffm. Use 4.4 and Thunar.
Thre is this casel? isn it in Romania?
Plese mail me an answer.
Regards!